Thursday, February 12, 2009

One on the mend and another sick


So a quick and short update on the sicky-poos in our house (only people in the Lewis family will know that movie quote).

It took a couple more hellish days and a dr's visit as well as some anti-vomiting medicine and now Brody is better with just some congestion and a cough leftover.

Unfortunately (as I had been fearing would happen) at around 11 pm last night Jake started getting what Brody had. Poor guy puked his guts out practically once every 90 minutes till around the 8 o'clock hour this morning. I am sure it only stopped because he has nothing left to throw up. Its Jake's day off today AND worst part is its his BIRTHDAY today. Happy 27th my wonderful husband, here is some Gatorade and a garbage can in case you can't make it to the bathroom!!!

Monday, February 9, 2009

A story of teething, vomiting and urgent care!

So I want to hurry and record this story before I forget details cause I think it is one I will look back and the details will be fuzzy. I am sure Jake would argue that I shouldn't want to remember something like this but I think it is a story worth recording.

Brody has been teething since he was 3 months old!! But somewhere in the past couple months things had gotten better. Since he is 2 1/2 I was hoping Brody was done. But in just the past couple weeks the signs have come back and worse. So I concluded that he was getting his two year molars. For anyone with experience with small children or babies with teething there is some drooling, hands or objects in the mouth constantly, interrupted sleep, crankiness, refusal to eat, diarrhea, etc. It has been tough on both Brody and myself because his little body does really need more sleep and with being pregnant I need more rest - so the worst has been his interrupted sleeping. I had been telling myself, perhaps this is all for a purpose - he can get all this horrible teething out of the way before the next baby comes. I had been catering to the symptoms, getting through it one day at a time and then Saturday hit!!

On Saturday morning I was out with Jake's mom Donna running errands. Saturday night was Becky and Trevor's reception and we were getting a few things. Brody had acted like he didn't want to eat any food that morning which wasn't really abnormal because, like I said before, with teething, he often would rather drink something and not eat. He had a sippy cup full of milk and then an hour later we were at Hobby Lobby and he was getting impatient so I gave him the sippy cup I packed just so that he would calm down and be content until we left the store. We went to check out and Brody puked all over. Slightly lucky (in a weird way) since the sippy cup was full of water and a little bit of juice, at least the vomit wasn't as messy or chunky as it could have been. It was a lot though, everything he had just drank. He ran outside with him and he threw up some more. We dealt with the mess and clean up (along with the employees of the store). I counted it as my bad judgement in giving him the second sippy cup with no food in his system and so soon after the other sippy cup he had.

So the rest of the day he refused to eat and he had another couple sippy cups. He seemed out of it and not feeling well but I passed that off as teething symptoms cause it really can wipe him out and molars can be really tough on toddlers. Then later that night we were at Becky and Trevor's reception and (fortunately it was a the end) I was holding Brody and noticed he was sort of gagging. I thought maybe he was going to throw up again so I ran to the women's bathroom and as soon as we walked in he threw up on the floor and I was able to get him to lean over the the trash can and finish. It was tough to clean up and we were blessed that a lovely lady at our church help mop it up while I took the trash to the dumpster. It was a heck of a day but after each bout of vomiting Brody didn't seem to be too affected so I didn't think too much of it. Then Sunday hit and everything changed!!

Jake now has Sundays off so it was a nice, relaxing morning together as a family. Then time for church rolled around Brody was not feeling good and neither was I. We both had cold symptoms with runny noses and coughing and slight fevers. So Jake took care of us while Donna went to church. We were hoping to feel better so we could go visit our friends Shannon, Glenn and Gage. But the weather was terrible where they were so we decided to literally take a rain check for another time when it was sunnier and better weather for a BBQ (plus Brody and I weren't feeling very good any way). I am SO grateful we didn't go cause starting around 2:30 or 3ish Brody started throwing up and was not keeping anything down. He threw up EVERYTHING. Jake went out and got pedialite and still he threw it up. Not only was Brody not keeping anything down, it seemed his body wasn't wanting anything in his stomach so after throwing everything up Brody threw up bile a couple of times. We were all concerned here at the house so I decided to call my mom and ask her advice. Luckily my sister Jada was over at the time that I called and she had taken her little boy in the ER last summer thinking he was dehydrated cause of diarrhea and throwing up. She told me some of the things the doctors and nurses had them do. Like try 2 oz of fluid at a time and give it 30 mins or an hour to see if it is kept down. We tried that too and all it proved, in my mind, that Brody was getting worse. It was getting really tough to see Brody like that cause once he started throwing up bile he was absolutely miserable and it is difficult to see his little body trying to physically force up anything that was in is his stomach when there was nothing there. At this point I knew for a fact this was way beyond teething symptoms. I called the on-call nurse at our pediatrician's office and told her everything. She was worried that at this point he was throwing up a good amount of bile because of his age it could damage his esophagus. Also by describing his pale and green coloring in his face and his extremely lack of energy (I used the word lethargic). He hadn't had a wet diaper in quite a few hours. So the nurse's advice was to take him in to an Urgent Care or ER.

Around 7 pm Jake and I took Brody took to Phoenix Children's Hospital East Valley Urgent care which, we are blessed to have one just down the road from us. Brody threw up some bile while we were talking to the triage nurse and she even commented on how sick he looked in his face. Needless to say, were admitted pretty soon, within 15 minutes of arriving. Brody who is usually a handful and a toddler who messes with everything, wants to explore new places just sat in our arms and had a vacant, expressionless face.

The doctor examined Brody and ordered a blood culture to test a bunch of things as well as x-rays to look at his belly. I guess there are a lot of conditions that vomiting is a symptom of that have to do with what is going on the stomach, intestines, etc.. Sadly enough, to help hydrate Brody and get him to stop throwing up he was going to need an IV. I was so nervous and scarred, for Brody to go through such a traumatic thing at his young age was going to be so terrible. My first IV was when I was 23 and I was having a baby and even then I hated it. How could this little boy who hated if you combed his hair handle an IV. I was glad that Jake and I said a prayer together before we left the house. I need all the help I could to comfort Brody and myself during this procedure. I needed to be there for my son and to not freak out so that Jake was not left alone to be the only parent that was holding it together!

Tears streamed down my face during the whole thing and poor Brody cried as well but he was so dehydrated that no tears came out! They put the IV in and took blood for testing at the same time (thank goodness). Jake and I held Brody's hands and I stroked his face with my fingers. Jake and I whispered to him that everything was going to be okay. We told Brody that what they were doing were was going to help and that he was being very brave. Being an urgent care for children the nurses were able to wrap the hand and wrist where the IV was so good that he wouldn't mess with it. Brody calmed down and then Jake and I took turns hold and cuddling with him. So with waiting in between the initial exam with the doctor, getting the IV in, giving the fluids to Brody through the IV, x-rays and waiting for the labs to come back we where waiting for a while. Before the nurses gave him the fluids he was given this medicine that would stop the vomiting and any nausea. Then after that Brody's body took the fluids very well.

So after lots of waiting the doctor gave us the good news that nothing came back abnormal from the labs and x-ray and it was looking good that he was taking the fluids so well. Shocking to me with how much Brody had thrown up and how long he had gone with no wet diapers and nothing in his system he was still considered very mildly dehydrated and not considered lethargic but just inactive.

Jake and I then questioned, with all that had happened with Brody's poor little body, what was causing all the vomiting. The doctor said it must be a virus or bug and it needed to run its course. She said he was most likely contagious. The medication that caused him to stop vomiting would last 8 hours and the next day we would need to slowly introduce clear liquids then bland food and see how he handles it.

We left the urgent care a little after 5 hours of being there with an exhausted little boy in our arms but nothing horribly wrong with him either. Jake and I were grateful that, though we had to deal with the IV and such, Brody was going to go back to normal. The staff at the PCH east valley urgent care were extremely helpful and very nice and we are grateful that they handled everything so great with us.

Jake and I are lucky to be living with Donna who did some sanitizing and laundry while we were gone and left work early to take care of Brody and myself. For the few family members who knew of our dilemma yesterday thanks for the prayers and offer to help. Things could have gone very differently and Brody been very sick and it was a comfort to know how many people who have been there to help.

So that was the big story about the craziness we experienced in the past couple days.

P.S. One a side note I am apparently teething as an adult. My wisdom teething are coming in more and my mouth is killing me and I think my horrible congestion and runny nose is related. I sympathize now with babies and toddlers because I have been pretty whinny myself !!!

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Thankful I live in Arizona

I am rarely thankful to live in Arizona. I mean its a desert. Most of the time I feel that the big metropolitan city of Phoenix should really be existing where Flagstaff is - you know up north where the air is cooler and there are real trees. I am not sure it was a good idea to settle in a desert where everything is brown and ugly, bare bushes are referred to as trees. Other than the weather that I complain about, lately with state and city governments in this Arizona in a budget crisis there are lots of problems with layoffs, hiring freezes, programs being cut and the quality of education being effected. I have never lived anywhere else so I know my complaints could be seen as naive and only based on my experience living here. Lately, as I have been hearing about the horrible winter weather in other parts of the country, I realize that I am blessed to live here. I don't have to shovel snow, scrap ice off my car or get Brody bundled up before he goes outside. He can run barefoot in the backyard in February and the sun shines on him and he happily runs around!



When it comes to the complaints about the poor economy of our state and the cities in it I was able to adapt a different perspective based on a couple meetings Jake and I had with some people yesterday.



Brody has a communication and social delay. He has been receiving therapy 100% free of charge through DDD (Division of Developmental Disabilities). Our Support Coordinator, one of Brody's therapists as well as Jake and I discussed Brody's goals we set for him in the past and if he has met any of them in the past 6 months. Then we all discussed new goals and gave an update of his progress. It has been a little over a year since we were told about Brody's delays from Early Intervention. Throughout that year Jake and I have experienced interaction with many different agencies throughout the state - DDD which is part of DES, AHCCCS, Early Intervention and more recently Mesa Public Schools (appointments set up with MPS to see if he qualifies for their Special Ed Preschool). These agencies and institutions have been imperative in helping with Brody's delays this past year. I am one of many who complain about government agencies and the red tape and hassle involved in dealing with them. But it has been mine and Jake's experience that the employees of these agencies have been friendly, professional and extremely helpful. With all the cut backs to programs in this state because of the lack of money it is wonderful to know that such a vital programs like the ones helping my son right now will not be affected and not only that but they seem to function well from our impression.



We have been assigned a Support Coordinator who provides an array of help in many ways and as a parent, she has been a great resource in support to me. It has been difficult for our family that Brody has needed so much assistance and extra patience because he doesn't development in all areas at a normal rate. Though I do keep in mind that Brody has no major diagnosis or major disability. Brody is 2 1/2 and communicates the way a 12-18 month old would. I have never heard my child say to me "mommy" or "mom" and not even close to an "I love you". Worse than that it makes the basic care I provide for him difficult when I don't know what he wants. So I feel very blessed to have Brody in therapy with great professionals who have provided wonderful help to Brody. DDD has been an amazing department and, as I was told yesterday by our Support Coordinator, not every state have these resources. In California there are waiting lists for most therapy services. Though a lot of services to children and adults are federally mandated some states do not have the resources and professionals to follow through like our state currently does.






So my heart is filled with gratitude towards the people who have helped us and that we live in state where these things are possible!!



Friday, January 16, 2009

8 months pregnant!




So I feel like I haven't mentioned this pregnancy that much. Which is crazy because being pregnant has been my identity since July!!! I suppose the reason behind it is cause given the chance to talk about my pregnancy I would have more complaints than positive remarks which I would feel bad about cause I don't want to give people the wrong impression. I am grateful and blessed to have the ability to bear children - not all do so I realize how lucky I am. Also though I have my complaints in actuality I have very healthy pregnancies (well counting the last one and so far in this one).

It has been so different from when I was pregnant with Brody. I am not working 40 hours a week in an office but I am having to keep up with Brody and around 30-35 hours a week I have another toddler to take care of so its different but both tiring. Of course I would take two smiling toddlers over grumpy co-workers any day. I have a different OB this time around. Jake hasn't been able to come with my to most of my appointments cause of his work schedule. Like with Brody, this baby boy moves A LOT. My doctor told me that I should make sure the baby moves at least 10 times throughout the day. No problem there. This baby is moving triple and sometimes quadruple that!!
I am excited to see what he will look like. What his personality is going to be like. Brody had so much personality and facial expressions even from the time he was a newborn. In so many ways I know what to expect when it comes to the care of this baby but with this being my second I have to do all it and take care of Brody. Not stating this as a complaint either just curious how it it will be - adapting a routine, getting used to this new little family member. Will this little boy know he is the second child in this family? Will he know he has an older brother? Will he develop differently because he has another brother to watch and observe and hear? I have gotten advice and heard from many people the way Brody will probably act so I don't think I will be surprised with that.
I guess I am anxious to meet this little guy and interested to see how life will be once he is born. Jake and I have gotten so used to just Brody. By the time this baby comes Brody will be about 3 months shy of his 3rd birthday. I know I have a huge belly and this little life inside me moves but the fact that I am having another child and our family is growing is a bit surreal for me. I am sure I will post about the baby and pregnancy at least once before I have him but I had these feelings and thoughts lately so I thought I'd share.


Friday, January 9, 2009

Reflections on 2008 and a hope for a the new year!

Growing up my family, like I am sure many others do, write down goals and resolutions at the beginning of every year. I have sort of continued this tradition since being out of my parent's home. As I was taught by my parents it is a great thing to write them down AND put them up somewhere in the house. I like the bathroom because its a place where you are most likely to glance at them a couple times a day or at least once.



REFLECTIONS ON 2008

As I was thinking about my resolutions and goals for 2009 (okay its even weird to type that year) it caused me to think about 2008 and all that happened. It is not like a lot happened but thinking back throughout the year I think there was some growth (not talking about my belly) and changes in me, Jake and even Brody in many ways - physically, mentally spiritually and more.
2008 was very exciting in many ways. Jake graduated from college after 5 years of very hard work. We became pregnant with our second child. Jake got a job at Mattress Firm and has already gotten two promotions (though that doesn't come with a raise) but still an accomplishment. Brody has improved very much through therapy with his communication and social skills. Two of Jake's siblings got married.

But deeper than those changes that are easy to list, our family has increased in love, faith, understanding, hope, appreciation, respect and patience. A toddler takes a lot of patience, a husband working crummy hours takes understanding, money problems and unemployment takes humility, faith, and hope. I am not saying that Jake and I were automatically taking these changes and events with quiet, grace and dignity BUT Jake and I have been given many opportunities in the year of 2008 to be experience different things, some hardships and some have just been changes and I think we have learned a lot.
HOPE FOR THE NEW YEAR

So to me goals for the new year are sort of personal so I am not going to record them in this blog. Instead I wanted to share some feelings I have had on my mind lately that I believe can relate to anyone's resolutions, wanting to progress in life and for anyone who just wants to get through their everyday life, in general.

Recently one of the leaders of my church gave a talk about hope. It is so inspiring and just utterly amazing. The subject of hope, itself, is something I am always moved by, so needless to say, his words really motivated and encouraged me to cling to hope when I am down, frustrated or in the mood to complain. Recently I have re-read some of his words:

"Hope is one leg of a three-legged stool, together with faith and charity. These three stabilize our lives regardless of the rough or uneven surfaces we might encounter at time. The scriptures are clear and certain about the importance of hope. The Apostle Paul taught that the scriptures were written to the end that we 'might have hope.' "

"Hope, on the other hand, is like the beam of sunlight rising up and above the horizon of our present circumstances"

"Faith, hope and charity complement each other, and as one increases, the others grow as well. Hope comes of faith, for without faith, there is no hope. In like manner faith comes of hope for faith is 'substance of things hoped for.' "

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf's words are wonderful to me. Through charity for others, faith in the Lord, I can hold to hope when times are tough. So hope is something I am going to ponder and work on for 2009. I would like to consider hope not just during tough times but all the time.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Lack of New Years photos but I have wedding photos!

So with the recent holidays, Jake and I celebrating our anniversary and then Josh's wedding things have been quite busy and sadly, I wasn't was really bad and didn't take any pictures on New Years Eve or Day. But I took lots of pictures at Josh and Amy's reception (again, forgot to bring my camera to take pictures as they were coming out of the temple).
No reason for these Brody photos, they don't mark a special occasion just my little boy being priceless

Climbing like he always does, eating toast in his pj's on a step latter that was in Josh's room!



Jake worked on the day of our anniversary which was a bummer cause it was on a Tuesday this year and that was the exact day of the week we got married. But on New Years Eve he got off early so we went out to dinner and had a very nice time just being the two of us.
Last year for our anniversary I posted a ton of pictures and spoke all lovey-dovey about Jake and our years of marriage. This year this is just this little collage of photos I put together. Jake and I celebrated 5 years of marriage and also it was New Years Eve 9 years ago that we had our first date so it was a very special day. He doesn't read this blog so I won't go on and say all the mushy stuff. I am grateful for Jake and so happy that no matter what our marriage is happy and healthy!! I really don't think any of these pictures will do the reception and its decor the justice it deserved. It was like a winter wonderland!
Here is the arbor that Cliff built that was used at Sarah's wedding. Jake and Josh fixed it up and it looked great.




In one of the corners there was this shelf decorated perfectly with the rest of the reception and had pictures of Josh and Amy. It was a really unique touch.

These are the paper flowers that Amy and many others have been working on for months. They really look very real and the tables looked SO awesome.

Really, the Stepp girls could give Martha Stewart a run for her money!

I was able to chat a bit with Amber and Chad and play with Ivy for just a few minutes. She is just a bundle of smiles and happiness!

Sorry this is such a dark photo but here is the happy couple greeting guests as they stand under the arbor (Amy's dress was beautiful and suited her perfectly).

And then there was the wedding cake. It looked so beautiful...as weird as it is to say a cake looks beautiful (I guess wedding cakes are the exceptions).

Here is a photo of the other side of the cake

Friday, January 2, 2009

Christmas pictures

We had such a nice Christmas and New Year and I am so behind on getting pictures on the blog (I do it more for my own catalog of events than you readers) so I am going to play catch up!

Christmas at home!
Very happy on Christmas morning...not necessarily for the normal reasons children are happy with presents or treats, just a simple decoration!!
Also Jake was very happy to get his property back in the form of a gift from Josh!!
Brody still doesn't really understand or care about presents so its basically me opening them with him next to me. We got him a Thomas the Train video! He is at a great age where one present is totally fine and all that he needs

He got new warm pajamas and a bunch of books he LOVES from Grandma Donna
One of my favorite presents he was given was from Sarah, Jared and Evan - a little Nike outfit.

Not sure if these are going to be his warm ups before he hits the basketball court or if he is going to join the Sopranos in a hit but he is just too cute in them!!
Then it was onto Christmas at my parent's house

It is getting quite big with our expanding family but it was really fun for all of us to get together in our pj's and enjoy the spirit of giving

Brody got probably his favorite gift from my parents

For his age and his personality it was perfect. A very simple car track with two cars that twist down. Brody played with it for SO long.

Also I had to take pictures to show the adorable pj's the Thad and Eva had. Thad had some cute ones with dogs.


Not sure if you can tell from this picture but Eva's pajama's were silky and covered in pink elephants. SO ADORABLE!